August 21, 2011

Battle of the Sexes

image Get your money right ladies, learn to sign your own checks and don’t call me after midnight unless we having sex. Don’t ever assume nothing, a mans going to be be a man. As long as tricks keep tricking, a hustlers going to keep hustling. Half of you always looking for some man to pamper you. But yet you talking about there aren’t any good men left in the world. This is lesson one baby, listen how should I begin. There ain’t no such thing as a platonic friend. Your lying to yourself if you don’t think you want more, so don’t you call me insecure when he show up at the door. You all claim to have substance, self-respect and some class. But yet you show up half naked in club and steady shaking yo ass. Ain’t no man trying to marry you with four or five kids, it may sound a little harsh but its straight from the heart.

Women need to make a choice, you can’t have the best of both worlds. you either want the chivalry or the independence. We all are witnessing where the independence is taking the next generation. With more and more kids being lost in today’s fast paced world and society having to design and build more prisons, I think  the older generation had it right. No longer are we trying to work out our difficulties as a family unit. It seems easier to just replace the problem. The issue with this line of thinking is that the situation we are seeking to dispel is only temporary. By searching and finding non-permanent comfort we instill a new set of derivatives into the equation of lasting happiness. When two individuals work out their differences together they grow closer and stronger.

The tides of time will always toss problems upon our shores, the strength of our foundation is being that rock that weathers the storm. Thus setting a stable  foundation for the next generation. We pass along strength, perseverance and determination to our offspring by showing that a family can overcome any obstacle that life tosses at them.

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  1. I think you can have the chivalry and the independence, as long as you don’t expect too much. I find men treat me much better considering I’m a college graduate with a decent job. They know I’m not chasing them down for anything. They don’t treat me like a hoodrat, because they know I won’t tolerate any less than I deserve. Men will hold a door for me. Men will ask to treat me to dinner. I guess a man is willing to be put in the time, money, and effort if he knows you don’t need him. I don’t need a man to pay my bills, put obnoxious jewelry on my arms and in my ears, etc. I find the less you need a man, the more willing he is to get you to at the very least WANT him. I’m sure the odds of my having children with a man who’ll stick around increase exponentially because I won’t be a needy nuisance he’ll get sick of.

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